Have you ever realized that someone you thought was a 'friend' is in reality a 'frenemy’?
Have you ever realized that someone you trusted is low-key sabotaging your success?
Have you ever realized that someone you trusted is low-key sabotaging your success?
Just because you have good faith in people doesn't mean you should be naive.
Here are some lessons I learned to stop being naive & step-up my game;
1-Honesty isn't always the best policy, keep your personal information private for your own sake. Life is a chess game; sharing can leave you vulnerable to your ill-wishers.
2-Even better; get better at reading people. Human beings are predictable. So get better at anticipating people's behaviour by listening more and paying attention to their words and actions. It's a learnable skill.
3-Listen to your gut feeling. This 'God-given' magic feeling that is supposed to alert you when something/someone isn't trustworthy. Our gut feelings are useful; use them.
4-Grind in silence! They won't see it coming, and they won't know what hit them. Live by Prophet Mohamed (PBUH) 's words: "استعينوا على قضاء حوائجكم بالكتمان" "; basically, fulfill your needs in silence.
5-Basically, privacy is power.
Have you ever experienced an instance where someone took advantage of your naivety & trust?
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By: Asia Aboosy
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